If you’re looking for a movie that’s going to tug at your heartstrings and leave you a blubbering mess by the credits, Standing Up FKA Ezra is it—and believe me, I know the feeling. As a parent of a child with autism, this film hit home in ways that were both painfully relatable and surprisingly uplifting.
The story opens with Ezra, a young autistic boy who gets expelled—yes, expelled—from school. I mean, how often do you see that explored in cinema? This alone sets the tone for a raw and unflinching look at the challenges faced by special needs families. But don’t worry; it’s not all gloom. In fact, it’s peppered with humor, thanks to the legendary Robert De Niro, who plays Stan, the no-nonsense grandfather. He’s blunt, he’s brash, and he’s absolutely hilarious. Classic Robbie.
Bobby Cannavale as Max, Ezra’s dad, is the heart of this movie. He’s fiercely protective and deeply loving, which resonated with me on a personal level. Cannavale’s performance is top-tier—he’s raw, passionate, and delivers every line with the kind of conviction that sticks with you long after the credits roll. Honestly, if you’re not crying by the end, check your pulse.
Rose Byrne steps in as Jenna, Ezra’s mom, and brings a stern but compassionate energy. She’s the responsible parent—the one who holds it all together, even when everything else is falling apart. Byrne’s portrayal feels so authentic, you might forget you’re watching a performance.
Ezra himself is the standout, though. His performance is layered, giving viewers a deeply personal look into life with autism. Scenes like sitting in a hot bath, struggling with risk awareness, or using a metal fork at dinner are small but powerful moments that shine a light on daily challenges many might not think twice about.
One of the most gut-wrenching moments for me? The inability to hug your own child. It’s a reality for many parents of autistic kids, and seeing it played out on screen was almost too much to handle—but it’s also what makes this film so necessary.
Beyond the emotional punches, Standing Up FKA Ezra highlights the age-old truth: it really does take a village to raise a child, especially one with special needs. The film mirrors this message beautifully by putting the characters on a literal journey, weaving the ups and downs of their relationships into a story that feels both personal and universal.
The subplot dynamics are just as rich. The relationship between Max and Ezra, and even Max and his father Stan, push every emotional button possible. It’s layered, heartfelt, and yes, it’ll make you cry—but in the best way.
At its core, this is a movie about acceptance—not just of autism, but of the imperfections and struggles that come with parenthood. It’s an honest and moving portrayal that captures the joys, frustrations, and triumphs of raising a child who sees the world differently.
So grab the tissues—you’ll need them—and prepare for a film that’s equal parts heartwarming and heart-wrenching. Standing Up FKA Ezra isn’t just a movie; it’s an experience.
